apa yang aku dah buat untuk tahun ni?
NOTHING!
really?
well not really.
belon masih tak tempah. (sebab rasa tema dah macam berubah)
baju masih blur. sebab even aku nak different dari orang lain. aku masih nak up to date. (tipulah kalau taknak)
duit?? --> ada 1k. cukup utk belanja dalam 100 orang makan mcD! okay ke kenduri camtu?
but then.. cerita cinta makin menarik. seperti ikut perancangan. Allah dah susun cantik. and somehow, jalan sudah nampak lebih jelas dan terang...ada cara untuk dapatkan apa yang diinginkan. persoalannya, sanggupkah aku membuat pengorbanan demi masa depan yang lebih gemilang? (pergh ayat buku teks. tapi serius tu yang kuar dari otak ni sekarang...)
dem~
Friday, December 9, 2011
Sunday, May 15, 2011
kahwin is scary~?
haven't been writing much.
cuz, well, trouble in love life. sooo, it kinda makes me re-think about this whole marriage stuff.
kahwin is BIG deal. it is FUN. however...
there are a lot of things you have to carefully think through..these are the few aspects that i feel at the moment are important before you tell your mom and dad, "mak, ayah, saya nak kahwin"
1. yourself : are you truly ready to alter your life and make rooms for this stranger that you love? are you willing to negotiate for the rest of your life? are you prepared for the worst case scenario like death and divorced?
2. your partner: is he/she is truly ready? will they like your family, accept them; or will they pretend or make an effort to like your family? do you want them to pretend to like your family or really like your family? will they accept any flaws that you have? will they use your flaws against you? will they let you be you?
3. parents: will they accept your partner as their own child? will they compare your partner with other in laws? will you be able to bear if they judge your partner? will they be truly happy to let you marry the one you (think) you're in love with?
4. in laws: will you be truly accepted? will you feel that you're judged? will you have to put on good performance for the rest of your days just to impress your in laws? will you be on good terms with everybody? will you like everybody? will you be able to trust these strangers?
5. love.money.time.distance etc..
kahwin is a BIG deal. i am scared. i can't deny it. but is is also FUN...if you're truly in love. because as cheesy as it might sound, i believe in the power of love. with love, you can even move mountain if you want to.
with all that is going in life, i want to stay as optimistic as ever, but somehow being human, i do get scared.
i wanna get married. someday. and that day will be totally awesome~! because no matter how nerve wrecking marriage can do to you.. i still would like to be certain that kahwin is fun!
cuz, well, trouble in love life. sooo, it kinda makes me re-think about this whole marriage stuff.
kahwin is BIG deal. it is FUN. however...
there are a lot of things you have to carefully think through..these are the few aspects that i feel at the moment are important before you tell your mom and dad, "mak, ayah, saya nak kahwin"
1. yourself : are you truly ready to alter your life and make rooms for this stranger that you love? are you willing to negotiate for the rest of your life? are you prepared for the worst case scenario like death and divorced?
2. your partner: is he/she is truly ready? will they like your family, accept them; or will they pretend or make an effort to like your family? do you want them to pretend to like your family or really like your family? will they accept any flaws that you have? will they use your flaws against you? will they let you be you?
3. parents: will they accept your partner as their own child? will they compare your partner with other in laws? will you be able to bear if they judge your partner? will they be truly happy to let you marry the one you (think) you're in love with?
4. in laws: will you be truly accepted? will you feel that you're judged? will you have to put on good performance for the rest of your days just to impress your in laws? will you be on good terms with everybody? will you like everybody? will you be able to trust these strangers?
5. love.money.time.distance etc..
kahwin is a BIG deal. i am scared. i can't deny it. but is is also FUN...if you're truly in love. because as cheesy as it might sound, i believe in the power of love. with love, you can even move mountain if you want to.
with all that is going in life, i want to stay as optimistic as ever, but somehow being human, i do get scared.
i wanna get married. someday. and that day will be totally awesome~! because no matter how nerve wrecking marriage can do to you.. i still would like to be certain that kahwin is fun!
Sunday, February 13, 2011
one way or another...
i once said to myself...and some of the people i'm closed with know this for a fact that, if i'm not married; i will open an orphanage. i have this thing with orphans. something i can barely describe. it's like my heart goes out to them...and i think they need me. and i love to be needed, especially by such pure souls. and they are also the reason i love charity.
obviously, now i'm in love... with my mystery man, that's why i have this blog just for my wedding plan. :p
so, i'll try to make sure that i'll get married...and still include the orphans. how? maybe i won't be able to build that orphanage in the long run like i planned. but i still could do something right?
so, believe it or not peeps... i'll turn my own wedding into a charity event! i'll share the progresses i made as time goes by.
(don't you think it's a good way to find sponsors for the wedding too?? *winkwink*)
oh!! kahwin is sooooo much fun!!! ^_^
obviously, now i'm in love... with my mystery man, that's why i have this blog just for my wedding plan. :p
so, i'll try to make sure that i'll get married...and still include the orphans. how? maybe i won't be able to build that orphanage in the long run like i planned. but i still could do something right?
so, believe it or not peeps... i'll turn my own wedding into a charity event! i'll share the progresses i made as time goes by.
(don't you think it's a good way to find sponsors for the wedding too?? *winkwink*)
oh!! kahwin is sooooo much fun!!! ^_^
Wednesday, January 19, 2011
photographer.photographer.oh! mr.photographer.
i've been hunting some photographer. there are few that i like their jobs. different photographers have different styles. so which is the best? which will be the chosen one?
i want something that has soul, like these... (pinjam gmbar!)
by: http://aheyrennzu.blogspot.com/
or
by: http://www.facebook.com/#!/ranggul (ni undiscovered artist lg kot?)
or
by: http://www.facebook.com/#!/profile.php?id=100000533942131
(this is my very good friend by the way.) hehee.. lovely tak hantaran? :D
cantik2 gmbar diorg ni.. seronok photographer hunting..boleyh berangan-angan. kahwin is fun~! no? si!!!! ^_^
i want something that has soul, like these... (pinjam gmbar!)
by: http://aheyrennzu.blogspot.com/
or
by: http://www.facebook.com/#!/ranggul (ni undiscovered artist lg kot?)
or
by: http://www.facebook.com/#!/profile.php?id=100000533942131
(this is my very good friend by the way.) hehee.. lovely tak hantaran? :D
cantik2 gmbar diorg ni.. seronok photographer hunting..boleyh berangan-angan. kahwin is fun~! no? si!!!! ^_^
Thursday, January 6, 2011
@>-- wedding? --<@
okay, this is frustrating. but up to this day, i still have no materials to share. but then again, it's the process right?
at the moment, getting married is not my numero uno priority. say whaaaaat? oh yes, not really. but i'll be working on something soon.. yeah.
that's the plan. better than nothing eh? hmm..
back to research! :P
oh yes.. kahwin is STILL fun~!!! no matter how sad your empty purse looks like. ^_^
at the moment, getting married is not my numero uno priority. say whaaaaat? oh yes, not really. but i'll be working on something soon.. yeah.
that's the plan. better than nothing eh? hmm..
back to research! :P
oh yes.. kahwin is STILL fun~!!! no matter how sad your empty purse looks like. ^_^
Wednesday, December 29, 2010
what's in store for 2011?
lately the thought of a wedding gives me the aches (stomachache,headache,heartache).
i know it's crazy to plan a ghost wedding years ahead...but it will give you a very good head start, eh?
at the moment the future of the $$$$$ department is looking bleak, thus corrupting the fun part of kahwin.
for next year: there will be the whole plan for the wedding of MY dream and how to save up money with meager salary. or vice versa? hmmm..undecided. but totally i have to save up!
ya Allah...i pray that my future will be bright and i'll try to be a better servant and will me ya Allah that i'll get married and produce pious little servants... amin~
i know it's crazy to plan a ghost wedding years ahead...but it will give you a very good head start, eh?
at the moment the future of the $$$$$ department is looking bleak, thus corrupting the fun part of kahwin.
for next year: there will be the whole plan for the wedding of MY dream and how to save up money with meager salary. or vice versa? hmmm..undecided. but totally i have to save up!
ya Allah...i pray that my future will be bright and i'll try to be a better servant and will me ya Allah that i'll get married and produce pious little servants... amin~
Tuesday, November 30, 2010
fortune coooookies~!!! (homemade)
what better ways to celebrate your guests??
fortune cookies!!! best tak best tak?
because dlm tu boleyh letak messages or event fortunes~! kan kan? i know right...
well, lusa kalo tak de pape.. i wanna practice making some fortune cookies. and will modify to add my style in it.. soooo.... my 'future' guests will eat the ONE and ONLY special fortune cookies from my wedding gooodie bags (or not, still undecided yet, cuz i dunt really fancy the goodie bags kt pasaran. :P tetttt... semua nak buat sendiri!)
hahaa... :)
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